Resources2025-10-17T11:58:25-05:00
Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy.

Coping with pet death can feel overwhelming. These resources offer comfort and guidance, helping you and your family through this difficult time.

Coping with the
Loss of a Pet

The bond we share with our pets makes saying goodbye feel overwhelming.

Each person grieves in their own way. Whether you’re facing a recent loss or preparing for the decision ahead, know that your feelings are valid. Below, you’ll find resources to support you and your family as you navigate this difficult time.

Grief Support Resources

Grief after losing a pet can feel just as heavy as losing any family member. Finding support when coping with pet death can make a meaningful difference.

Comfort Through Connection

Here are some helpful pet grief support options.

Chicago Veterinary Medical Association Pet Loss Helpline

Free CVMA helpline and monthly virtual group for pet loss support.

Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB)

Online pet loss support groups, chat rooms, and professional resources.

AVMA Pet Loss Support

Resources from the American Veterinary Medical Association.

Cornell University Pet Loss Support Hotline

Veterinary students trained by professional grief counselors to listen and provide comfort.

C.A.R.E. Pet Loss Support Hotline

Articles, resources, and support options for grieving pet owners in Illinois.

Helpful resources to support children coping with pet loss.

  • The Invisible Leash by Patrice Karst: A reassuring story about feeling connected to a pet after death.

  • The Rainbow Bridge: A Visit to Pet Paradise by Adrian Raeside: A hopeful picture book that imagines a peaceful place for pets.
  • Helping Children Cope with Pet Loss (Ohio State University): Printable tips and language for parents and caregivers.

When to Know It’s Time: Helpful Questionnaires

One of the hardest questions pet owners face is, “How do I know when it’s time?” These tools are designed to guide thoughtful and compassionate decisions.

Designed by veterinary experts, these scales help assess a pet’s comfort and well-being.

American Animal Hospital Association

This article discusses several areas to consider when determining your pet’s quality of life.

Ohio State Quality of Life Guide for Pets

A concise tool from Ohio State’s Veterinary Medical Center to assess your pet’s well-being. It lists key signs, decision questions, and a worksheet to track changes. Watch for red flags like unmanaged pain, severe breathing trouble, or inability to eat or drink.

These are designed to help you weigh good days versus difficult days.

Louisiana State University Veterinary Hospital

This worksheet provides a series of questions to ask yourself and your veterinarian, along with a scoreable worksheet to help with your decision.

Dr. Buzby’s

This page provides information on how to determine what a good day is, along with more details on specific ways to determine what your pet’s quality of life is.

Additional Pet Loss Support Options

Pet bereavement affects the entire family.

Children may need extra reassurance, while adults often seek community or memorials when coping with pet death.

Helpful options include:

  • Keepsakes, such as paw prints, nose prints, or memory stones, that children and families can hold onto.

  • Open conversations that encourage both children and adults to express feelings in their own words.

  • Age-appropriate books and guides to help children understand loss with honesty and comfort.

  • Local and virtual support groups that provide ongoing connection and understanding.

  • Pet memorial services or online remembrance pages to celebrate your pet’s life.

  • Recommended reading lists with coping strategies and stories of healing. This list, compiled by the Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement, is a great place to start.

Every family deserves access to compassionate end-of-life care that reflects their love and bond.

Support for Families and Children

At Eternal Embrace, we know pet loss affects the whole family. Dr. Amber Faul offers compassionate guidance, helping children and adults find comfort while dealing with pet bereavement.

If you need support or have questions about end-of-life care, please get in touch with Eternal Embrace to speak directly with Dr. Amber. She is here to help your family and your pet find peace.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are healthy ways to cope with pet death?2025-09-17T22:27:01-05:00

Healthy ways of coping with pet death include allowing yourself to grieve, talking with supportive friends or family, creating a memorial, or joining a pet loss support group. Some people find comfort in journaling, artwork, or rituals that honor their pet’s memory.

Where can I find pet grief support resources?2025-09-17T22:26:30-05:00

You can access pet grief support resources through organizations such as the ASPCA Pet Loss Support, the Association for Pet Loss & Bereavement, or the Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Community. Many veterinary schools and the AVMA also offer guides and hotlines for coping with pet death.

How do I know when it’s time for end-of-life care?2025-09-17T22:25:03-05:00

Deciding when it’s time is one of the hardest choices a pet owner faces. Quality of Life questionnaires and decision-making tools can help assess your pet’s comfort, mobility, and happiness. Consulting with a veterinarian like Dr. Amber Faul can also provide clarity and compassionate guidance.

Can children benefit from grief support after losing a pet?2025-09-17T22:24:12-05:00

Yes. Children process grief differently from adults, and having age-appropriate resources can help. Keepsakes, open conversations, and children’s books about pet loss can provide comfort. Grief counselors who specialize in families can also help children express their emotions in healthy ways when coping with pet death.

Are there local or online pet bereavement groups I can join?2025-09-17T22:23:38-05:00

Yes. Online groups for dealing with pet bereavement, such as those offered by the APLB or Rainbow Bridge, provide supportive communities where you can share memories and feelings if you’re coping with pet death. Many local veterinary clinics, animal shelters, and humane societies also host in-person pet loss support groups.

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